SewStylish is having a spring sewing Contest, and GertieT emailed me to let me know that her adorable dress has made the finals (it’s there up above). Go check out the other two dresses, too, and vote! Voting closes TONIGHT (the 16th) at midnight.
She also wanted to let me know that several of the less-courteous commenters had said things like “Your tattoos are disqusting [sic]……I wouldn’t vote for your dress even if I liked it….” and “too bad!!! [about the tattoos] coz the dress is lovely!!!”
C’mon, people. This is how it goes. You can certainly refuse to vote for a dress if you don’t like GertieT’s tattoos — it’s your right to cast a vote based on any criteria you like. however (just so you know) you pretty much make yourself look like a blithering idiot by commenting to that effect. What will those comments accomplish? GertieT getting hers lasered off? (No.) will they prevent some other person from getting a tattoo? (Unlikely.) All they do is make you look like narrow-minded ignoramuses.
Now, if this had been an actual moral issue — say, one of the contestants had been convicted of assault, or was an avowed racist, or something like that — I think you would be within your rights to announce WHY you weren’t voting for a particular candidate. but because you don’t like tattoos? Sheesh.
Now, I’m not a substantial fan of tattoos. What does this mean? It means *I* don’t have one. I’ve never found any image that I liked enough to want to make a permanent part of my skin. but that doesn’t matter — what other people do with their skin is no concern of mine. and it’s certainly not important to the questions at hand, which is: “What’s the nicest dress?”
The contest wasn’t SewStylish’s spring beauty contest — it was a sewing contest! It takes a lot of gumption to pose for a contest picture, and if there are going to be these sorts of ad hominem comments, I bet there will be fewer contestants next round. What if next time one of the contestants is “overweight” (whatever that means) or is “too goth” (as if there was any such thing) or has an unusual hairstyle (whatever that is) or, heaven forbid, has something pierced other than her ears?
I don’t want to be all “Oh noes! people are mean on the Internets!” but really, sewing people, I expect better from YOU. So if you’re ever tempted to make this kind of comment, safe and protected behind your keyboard, think about how you would feel if a bunch of bozos decided to leave similar comments about you.
It’s the golden Rule, peoples. It’s not difficult. Or if the “unto” in the golden rule trips you up, you can ask yourself two simple questions: “Is it truthful? Is it kind?”
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